Pulling someone else’s hair up into a bun can be rough. Hairstyling might not be your speciality, slicking back whispies can seem impossible, even with copious amounts of hairspray, and the 3- or 4-year-old you’re “working” with might not have the patience to sit still. We know, we know, it can be frustrating!

So before you pull your own hair out, watch Jenna Bitterman, a teacher at Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis School Children’s Division and member of ABT’s Artistic Board of Examiners, show you how it’s done.